to you friends~

Assalamualaikum. Hey there~ Just finishing up my study for the day, and now feel like i want to write something in my blog.


"The believers are nothing else than brothers, so make reconciliation between your brothers, and fear Allah, than you may receive mercy " ( al-Quran, 49:10 )


Have you ever met someone for the first time and when you get to know her, your mind just popped that maybe she is your actual-sworn-eternal friend. The friend you have been waiting for. You guys talk and then it seems to you that you guys like the same thing and have the same hobby and so on and so forth. So, you guys are just meant to be together.


Well, actually that would be so strange and grotesque(bizarre) because people are just simply different. Maybe she likes to cook and you too like to cook but in some other way maybe she has other habits that is so not you like sports car or whatever. This differences actually that bond people together because if you and your friend like to do same stuff over and over again,it just gets dull and boring. Well maybe first time doing same things together is going to be exciting but sooner or later, you will experience this. Don't need me then to tell i told you so right eh?


Instead, why don't we introduce new things, the things we love and fine fascinating to do, so that maybe our friends will find them interesting too. It will be too tiring to find similarities between people because people are just meant to be different from one another. That's just facts talking.


Okay, sometimes you might have troubles and arguments with your BFF and you just cannot cope with her attitude. Well, perhaps you have that kind of attitude too that make your friends feel you are bothersome. Think positive and try to solve the problem maturely. Don't run away from it and think that you are the right one and she's the one who needs to apologize. 

Narrated Anas bin Malik:

Allah’s Apostle said, “Do not hate one another, and do not be jealous of one another, and do not desert each other, and O, Allah’s worshipers! Be brothers. Lo! It is not permissible for any Muslim to desert (not talk to) his brother (Muslim) for more than three days.”


Self attitude adjustment is important in oneself just to know how to act the right way at the right time. Just think. If actually the fault is yours and you don't want to say you are sorry then what's going to happen to your friendship? End it? Make new friends? Maybe your friends are scared to say things that might hurt your feelings. That's why they prefer to stay quiet and let you yourself do the thinking. 


If you quarrel with your friend over an advice she has given you, it is just plain wrong. It just proved that you are snobby and you don't want to listen to your friend who cares for you. Our environment shapes us to be who we are. That means our friends do too. If they advice you, it just that they want you to be a better person. Not for themselves, it's for your own good. So, if you fight with your friends, reconcile, forgive and forget ok! Don't hesitate and Don't hold grudges against your friends! 


Anyway, making friends is a good way to correlate with our environment. Don't lock yourself in your room and refuse to talk to anyone because i think if you do that you will end up in a psychiatric ward. People who are alone tend to have mental illness because they don't speak up their mind or maybe, they just like to talk to themselves? certainly that just proved they suffer mental problems. Sorry~ Just joking.=)


On the authority of Abu Musa al-Ash'ari (رضي الله عنه ), the Prophet (صلي الله عليه و سلم ) said:

A good friend and a bad friend are like a perfume-seller and a blacksmith: The perfume-seller might give you some perfume as a gift, or you might buy some from him, or at least you might smell its fragrance. As for the blacksmith, he might singe your clothes, and at the very least you will breathe in the fumes of the furnace.


So, last words from me, remember that friends are the ones who are with us during ups and downs. If we choose the right type of friends, insyaAllah we will be guided and have a blessed life not only with the people around us but with Allah SWT too because good friends will insyaAllah make us want to race to do good things in life. Remember that! Hope you have a blissful day.. taa~ 


p/s : sure this applied to our soon to be partner in life too.. =) 

Time and Blessings~

Assalamualaikum.It has been a while since i last updated this blog..i hope you guys are in the pink of health same as i do.Alhamdulillah..Alhamdulillah i am really grateful for His blessings that He has given me the opportunity to still be alive till this day,writing here again although my time really consumed me for a while now. Anyway, today i just want to remind you all about the given time and the blessings from Allah SWT. I just want to talk about this because i want to remember myself especially and you guys on the precious time given to us by Allah SWT.


" Good health and spare time are two of the blessings of Allah with respect to which many people are deceived." -sahih al-Bukhari.


TIME is a simple word really not that i want to explain it here but i just want to ask you guys what have you been doing with the time given to you?i myself ask this question occasionally and for the zillionth time still i regret for most of the time i spent for. Because when you look back, you will be reminded of your time doing worthless things and if its for the good purpose you'll just be happy but if there is no so-call-meaning behind all that.you just felt worse.


Let me bring you guys to the world of afterlife..
If we died doing good deeds most in our life, when we are carried to our grave later on, we welcomed it and we will feel a great blessing just to be buried but if we died and we have only done bad things in our life, we will struggle and really do not want to be buried because we already know then what awaits us in the grave.


We often heard about this. When the funeral is over and the last person of the funeral congregation has stepped 7 steps away from the grave, the angels Munkar and Nakir prop the deceased soul upright in the grave and ask three questions: "Who is your Lord? Who is your Prophet? What is your religion?". A righteous believer will respond correctly, saying that their Lord is Allah, that Muhammad is their prophet and that their religion is Islam. If the deceased answers correctly, the time spent awaiting the resurrection is pleasant. Those who do not answer as described above endure the Punishment of the Grave until judgement day.


So, which do you think are you going to be? Do you think simply because you are a muslim you can answer all those correctly? Well you are wrong. Know why? Because simply our mouth cannot respond to everything that had been asked and cannot utter even one word in the grave. Our limbs and parts are going to be the one who answer all those questions and they knew well what we did in our past. So now, tell me, if your legs and heart were really heavy and you often procrastinate solah especially how do you think your limbs would answer? If you often neglect our prophet advices and tend to do things the wrong way as well as do not want to idolize our prophet Muhammad SAW, preferably Justin Bieber or someone else do you think your eyes and ears will be able to tell the answer as you wanted?? And if nowadays you think that your life is nowhere that upheld amar maaruf nahi munkar and you do not do things as islam asked, so how, tell me, how do you think your legs,arms,nose,eyes and your body will all be synchronized to proudly say that :
" My Lord is Allah SWT."
" My Prophet is no other than Muhammad SAW."
" My religion is no other than ISLAM."


To all my dear friends, let us sit back and think for a while what we have done so far in our lives, what have we given for our beloved religion islam and what can we give more for it. InsyaAllah Allah wills , we will all be gathered in Jannah one day and i really hope that we can all be there together so please if u think that you have been wasting much of your time doing purposeless things do change and be better for the future and please, i beg to do not procrastinate because our time here is a blessing from Him, Allah The Almighty.


"..indeed, Allah will not change the condition of the people until they change what is in themselves" Surah Ar-Ra'd, verse 11.


Till then, Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi taala wabarakatuh. 

TIPS2 KEJAYAAN..

Tips Dr Fadhilah Kamsah:

1. Membentuk matlamat dan niat untuk menjadi manusia terbaik!

2. Manjaga ibadah dan bersolat

3. Berdisplin

4. Sentiasa memperbaiki diri

5. Mencari keberkatan (rezeki, ilmu dan masa)

6. Sentiasa menghormati oarng lain

7. Bertanggungjawab dan setia

8.Berfikiran positif

9. Team work

10.Sentiasa bersemangat, ceria dan memberikan lebih dari yg diminta 

TIPS UNTUK KEKUATAN DIRI 

 

Berusahalah, jangan berpuas hati sehingga yang baik menjadi lebih baik dan yang lebih baik menjadi paling baik. (Larry Bielat)

Manusia cemerlang fokus kepada kerja penting walaupun tidak seronok. Sementara manusia lemah fokus kepada kerja seronok walaupun tidak penting. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

Kejayaan bergantung kepada apa yang anda lakukan dengan diri anda. (Ron Jenson)

Kegagalan bukan muktamad. Kita gagal kerana terlalu cepat mengaku kalah dan mudah putus asa.  (Lewis Timberlane)

Tidak ada kemajuan tanpa perubahan. Mereka yang tidak boleh mengubah pemikiran tidak boleh mengubah apa-apa. (George Bernard Shaw)

Musuh utama kecemerlangan bukanlah kekurangan fizikal, sosial atau ekonomi tetapi mental. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

Saya tidak kalah apabila saya berada di bawah. Saya hanya kalah sekiranya saya tidak bangun semula dari bawah. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

Buatlah apa yang anda mampu buat, dengan apa yang anda ada dan di mana sahaja anda berada kerana tiada alasan di dalam kamus pemburu kejayaan. (Henry Truman)

Secara semulajadi semua manusia itu sama, tetapi ilmu menjadikan mereka cukup berbeza. (Bidalan Cina)

Rancanglah masa depan anda kerana di situlah anda akan menghabiskan hidup anda. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

RAJIN itu adalah punca segala kejayaan dan MALAS pula punca segala kegagalan. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

Rahsia kejayaan cuma ada dua perkataan, TRY (cuba lagi) HARDER (lebih kuat). (J.P Ghetty – Billionaire)

Memulakan sesuatu itu adalah hebat tetapi menyelesikannya adalah lebih hebat! (H.W Longfellow)

Kebanyakan orang gagal bukan kerana bodoh tetapi mereka gagal kerana melakukan kerja bodoh. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

Manusia yang berakal ialah manusia yang suka menerima dan meminta nasihat. (Saidina Umar Al-Khattab)

Kemahuan adalah umpama orang buta yang perkasa mendukung orang lumpuh yang dapat melihat. (Arthur Schopenauer)

Kesusahan yang dialami kerana berusaha untuk berjaya hanya sekejap sahaja kemudian akan senang seumur hidup. (Ibnu Yusuf)

Tidak ada manusia yang dengan sendirinya menjadi cerdik. (Dr. Shukri Abdullah)

sahabat..

dedicated to all my fwenz out there~ and also wishing all the best for the upcoming exam! bittaufiq wannajah~@

kasih sayang ibu bapa..